Destiny or Prarabha

 

I don’t remember whether I have written anything about Destiny in this blog which is a very important aspect and about which Sri Sri Thakur always used to impress and insist. Very few people accept whole heartedly about destiny or prarabdha!! All my whole life I have seen people and even from my own relatives who hesitate to accept destiny!! In the beginning, they would not accept it and would try their level best to change it and struggle more to fight with their destiny but in the end the things would happen which was destined to happen and like this those incidents would have happened 100 times in their life but still they are reluctant to accept prarabdha!! There are people even from our Guru brothers and sisters community (please don’t take offence) who very rarely accept destiny and don’t accept it very easily which is very strange on their part being a follower of our Gurudev!!! If we take a look at the epics or ancient stories we can find many such examples of prarabha where it played its major role in deciding the fate of the characters of those stories!! Once it happened that a devotee named Ramdas who was a businessman and was into the business of purified butter or ghee suddenly started incurring losses in the business and due to which he lost interest and one day closed it.  He started spending the days in deep depression and subsequently decided to renunciate the material world and met Sri Bholagiri Maharaj whose ashram was near to his house. Ramdas babu narrated all his story and told he has no interest left in the business of ghee anymore but Maharaj ji insisted to start the business of ghee once again and even asked him to take money from the ashram fund as a loan to finance his business. Accordingly, Ramdas babu took money from the ashram and once again started the business but again the business suffered huge loss and collapsed!! Ramdas babu once again went to the Maharaj and conveyed him the story but Maharaj wasn’t losing any hope and asked him to not to worry and can take more money from the ashram fund but he should and must do the business of only and only Ghee!!! At this Ramdas babu got furious and irritated as already he has got debt on his head for the money taken from the ashram and again he has been asked to take more!! This story came into the knowledge of Sri Sri Thakur and his devotees and once Rohini Mazumdar babu said as what is this?? This is not correct?? Why Sri Bholagiri Maharaj ji is insisting him to do the business of ghee again and again?? Sri Sri Thakur was also sitting there and He took strong objection to this and said that learned souls and saints never say lie!! Ramdas babu must do the business of ghee only as it is his destiny!! Ramdas babu once happened to meet our beloved Gurudev Sri Sri Ram Thakur!! Guruji listened to his story and suggested him to take a vacation and spend a month or so with one of his dearest disciple Sri Rohini Mazumdar babu who was at that time staying at Muzzafarpur in Bihar!! Ramdas babu wondered a little bit and then accepted the proposal and Sri Sri Thakur gave him a letter in the name of Rohini babu!! Subsequently, Ramdas babu reached the place of Rohini babu and gave him the letter of Gurudev where the whole story of Ramdas babu was narrated and Sri Sri Thakur requested Rohini babu to just take care of him properly and allow him to accompany everywhere wherever Rohini babu goes!!!  Rohini babu happily welcomed Ramdas babu and so he started living with the family of Rohini babu. They sat to take lunch, here it should be mentioned here Rohini babu and his family was purely non-vegetarian and Ramdas babu was purely vegetarian!! Fish and other non-veg items were served to him to which Ramdas babu objected and told that he is vegetarian, Rohini babu said then you shouldn’t have came here as we are purely non-vegetarian!!! Ramdas babu sat for a while and asked him what you suggest then?? Rohini babu said that in my opinion you must eat what we are eating and don’t worry at all!! Ramdas babu agreed to the proposal started eating non-veg items. He would go everywhere wherever Rohini babu would go. In the day time he would go with  Rohini babu to the school where he was a teacher and he would be busy in taking his classes and Ramdas babu would sit quietly in a chair the whole day watching him!!  In the evening he would accompany Rohini babu to the club where he used to go regularly and there also he would sit quietly in a corner and Rohini babu would be busy in playing games and chatting with his friends, cracking jokes, laughing etc. Like this a month had passed and then one day Ramdas babu asked that I could not understand you properly Rohini babu?? He asked Why?? Ramdas babu said that the whole day I didn’t saw you doing any puja or meditation sort of a thing, when you are devoting time for your spiritual quest?? I think you must be doing some meditations during night!! Rohini babu laughed at this and told that it is not correct as I am not doing any meditations at night!! But Ramdas babu didn’t agreed to this all. Rohini babu tried his level best convince him but couldn’t. At the end, he said alright from today you can sleep with me also!! After somedays Ramdas babu became convinced and asked that then when you are doing puja or meditation?? Rohini babu again laughed and said that I don’t do all these things and always remember my Guru while going out for my work and always remember the Sri Naam given by Him, thats all!! Ramdas babu then asked him then what you suggest me to do?? Rohini babu told him that honestly I also believe that you must start your old business of ghee once again as that is your prarabha!! Ramdas babu quite convinced and satisfied with this took leave of Rohini babu and reached his place and started the business of ghee and after somedays Rohini babu found that Ramdas brand ghee was being sold in the market and remembered the wordings of Sri Bholagiri Maharaj that you must and should do the business of ghee only!! I think this story very clearly tell us about prarabha!! There was another devotee who was a lawyer by profession but he didn’t liked it at all, as in this profession one has to say bundle of lies!! He pleaded before our Gurudev that he would like to do something else for his living but Guruji didn’t agreed to it and told him to continue his legal profession as it is his destiny only!! We would discuss more on this topic in our next post!! Jai Ram!!